Sunday, July 22, 2007 ♥
its gna be a long post. but pls read!
NO ONE NEEDS ANOTHER PERSON TO SURVIVE! thats something everyone must learn!! thou its difficult but somehow it really works. not to take things so hard & dont ever take things for granted.!
-拿的起,放得下-
there's consequences to everything we do or leave behind.
there's always a meaning to whatever we asked or says.
there's always an answer to which or whys.
its sweet to have love beside. thou not at all times its sweet cos there's also tears.
not everyone is so so so fortunate to have the other party for life.
someday even so they still have to part.
everything in life is alr predestined, its all prepared even before we was born.
all those trial , obstacles in life.
thou its causing insane at times, still we have to brave it through.
'i love you' such an easy word to say.
but have you really ever went deeper in it what does this mean ?
i doubt anyone will!......
cause human weird funny & full of stupid things........ somethings that have been said or done. its for LIFE its gna follow us throughout till the very day we die.
i might not have love someone really really wholeheartly. & i admit i might not even have the chance to do so or explain what it is.
but what my LOVE i think its all about.
LOVE to me. i think if there's another party that i love. is because i love him of who he are and what he is.
but some are just so materialistic & they wants you over for some particular reasons. is that LOVE ?
no doubt its sweet,
its really nice,
its means more than anything in the world. -JUST AT THAT MOMENT OF TIME- * REMEMBER*
&& what if they break up the very next day. everything starts to fall apart.
those swearing those cursing . those words they says. is totally different when they was tgt
* SOUNDS FAMILIAR ?*
why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
why one cant be friends when they cant be couples ?
i just simply dont understand.
humans tend to realise how important OR how much the other party mean only when they have lost it & can never get it back again.
when they behold it, they just treat it like trash. so what for !
only to regret when you have lost.
and not treasure when you have?
think back through , during those times tgt.
how much hurt, how much pain.
you have caused.
couples who can withstand the trials & get through day by day.
mayb till they get married.
CONGRATULATIONS!
how many of them can be able to do this .
not many!
cause we just cant understand the pains, tears, hurt the other party have gone through till the very day we had let go or lost them forever.
SORRY is the very last word i wna hear from my loved ones.
cos dont dont ever hurt me through & through again when you know it pains me.
why must ppl hurt others & let them feel the pain throughout & throughout again.
i really dont see the point.
COMMITMENTS, dont ever let a relationship becomes into a commitment cos it will breaks very easily.
LOVE must stay within , if ever anyone harbour the thought of leaving & find the relationship no longer should continue.
is best to let go, instead of draggin on.
cause in the very end. both parties get even worst at hurt!
to you: _e_ti_e
if you find it really xinku, its high time to let go of it.
cos i see no use in holding on when everything have alr comes this far.
if love really exist __ wouldnt treat you like this.
& if he sees the need of this r/s , he will not treat you this way.
it really hurts me to see you like this. cos i know your pattern de.
if things just cant work it out, its time to think it through.
ive told you many times.
i dont wna see my another friend, having the same problem as she does.
i knw & believe your sensible enought to know whats right and wrong.
decide on whats best for you.
and of course i hope things would work it out & you to be happy once again.
you know whr to get me whn you wna look for me.
not to worry . everything would turned out fine.
need someone to talk. or just to meet. ill be there.
if you need to cry, i lent you my shoulder nor.
or worst to worst , i cry with you!
i love you! B__ti_
there might be no everlasting love.
there might be one out there.
who know and who can ?
behold!?
to all those thats attached now. -couples-
*treasure all that you have, give her/him the best that you can.
don look back on things that have happen through. Promises try not to break it through. dont ever do wrong things and expect forgiveness through just a word SORRY. its doesnt do the magic.
treat her/him nice, love him/her well & good.
cherish each & every moment you spent togethers.
look forward to a new day beginning & enjoy the many more to comes.
things doesnt work things out thats causes all those arguements is because of mis-communications! so communicate! talked!
all the best and long lastin relationship to those who have their partners!
to all those that having some problems in their r/s
*dont rush into things. make decision wisely.
dont decide all because of memories & because you cant bear to.
its not worth.
think it through if still able to go through trials.
memories sometimes would do the puzzle.
cause holding on at times, you would sink into deeper hurts.
decide on what you deem fit.
to those thats single
*you will soon meet your mr/mrs right.
just wait for the time to come.
be more firm on who you are. & dont straight rush into it.
think it through & over again.
know the person well enough. && have to accept who she/he is before starting.
if not when tgt , than start to regret. dont end up hurting the other party.
and before every relationship starts. you have to 拿的起,放得下 if not if you take it too hard when things happens. you wouldnt be able to take it.
so have to have to learn!
conclusion for the day!
`learn to respect the other parties.
communication have to have to be within the r/s.
dont hide things or lie to the other one.
dont make promises that you know you unable to make it.
share your things and do listen to him/she.
be there for the other party.
always let them know you love him/her.
dont over-control the other parties privacy or freedom.
-cherish all that you have now. treat em nice & love them well.
-hold onto tight & dont ever let them go.
-dont ever hurt them. dont leave a scar behind.....
*correct me if i am wrong in saying any of this above, this are just my thoughts. but well i maybe wrong too.
so just correct me! tag!
its hard to maintain love.
harder to even love.
love just a word.
deep down its really hard to describe what really is.
LOVE is COMPLICATED!
every single beat of my heart went out to you.
my heart is still aching cause i still love you.
memories that ill always look upon.
ill start to tear at night.
i wished you were here.
& that you were mine.
all an illusion i had from the start.
i wish you good luck & all the best.
last long with you baby girl!
Yvonne ♥
♥ The girl.
YVONNE
That's what everyone calls & when June7th falls
That's when I'll get older too:D
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I'll be leading a life that I want it to be
& I'll be looking things in other perspectives not too much of the negatives.
Living life stronger everyday.
I guess I've been pretty well grown up.
Learned pretty much in life
All the rights and wrongs
After all the pains that I've went through or perhaps given by others.
Its high time I'd have to be independent.
Basically, I'm sociable and of course friendly.
But do at times, I might be a little way off too crazy.
and I'm a little temperamental but I guess my endurance are kinda of high.
So I wouldn't blow my top easily(:
Big THANKS to those who have always been there for me
I can't be more than content to have all the loved ones around me
& I would want you guys know
I LOVE YOU ALL.
Thank you will never be enough for those who have been there whenever I needed your to be
Gonna be a big girl now and have to stop relying so so much on others
There's still much more to go through.
& as for the rest.
Find it out yourself(:
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